What is the single most limiting emotion that you have? Mine was fear!
When I started changing my life I started to face one fear after another. I learned to deal with them and eventually got rid of most of them. That increased my personal freedom more than anything else.
You can’t blackmail me anymore because I don’t fear and I am not attached to stuff anymore.
Ged rid of your fear as well.
It is the simplicity of happiness that matters most.